Future Dating Profile?

[genderjumper]

With the caveat that my peak era of self-articulation is a near 100% overlap with my peak era on OKCupid, and therefore I do these little exercises in my head way more often than I'm actually on dating apps/actively looking to date, and therefore this probably won't be the last time I drop something like this off here and forget about it.

I am a person whose life is very intentional, analytic, and process-oriented (by choice). What I seek most from dating (and perhaps socializing in general) is spontaneity. I love it, I can build on it, but I cannot seem to produce it alone. I relish the mystery and wonder of getting to know new people, I savor the improvisation of sex, and I am recharged by hours that are set aside on the calendar but are left blank.